Help me sleep! Please!

[95z28man]

Why do you think they are afraid of you? Just wondering.

Well the only time I really see any girls is when I'm at the gym and I'm usually pretty quiet and all they see is muscles, veins, painful faces etc... lol

I also just lack self esteem and put myself down haha

[1hottcamaro]

Well the only time I really see any girls is when I'm at the gym and I'm usually pretty quiet and all they see is muscles, veins, painful faces etc... lol

lol that could be a little intimidating..and also the girls there may think you dont wanna be bothered while you are working out, so that could also be why they dont say anything...and you know alot of girls want the guy to say something first, so you may have girls interested to talk to you buy maybe they are waiting for you to make the 1st move.

Dont you have girls that are interested in your Camaro ? A bad ass silver Camaro with a 383 is just awesome...im sure it draws attention...and a good conversation starter.... alot of the girls I know seem to be more interested in ''nice'' cars like BMWS, ETC. and really dont care about a fast car...or whats done to it...if you can find a girl thats interested in cars, than you will have something in common and she will want to go to events and suff with you. I know most of the girls I know really are not into my Camaro, and they really dont get why I am so into it and why I have all these plans for it...well they are not Camaro Girls like me lol soo find a Camaro Girl or Trans Am girl or even a Mustang Girl. Maybe go to car shows, the track, or events and just strike up conversation with a girl. (not if shes a fat ass tho)

I also just lack self esteem and put myself down haha

okay that is a problem!! I dont know how you act in person, but you know when you see someone that lacks self esteem, you can just tell by the way they act and the way they carry themselves... and alot of times thats not a trait that draws people to you.. you need to think more postive.. walk around smiling, girls love a happy smiling guy. think about the things you like about yourself.. dont focus on the negative stuff. I have had self esteem issues , and sometimes I still do.. So I know that feeling, and it doesnt feel good, but I dont act like it in front of people anymore. (at least 95% of the time) Most people that know me, have no clue about it because I am always so happy and fun.
People like to see the confident person who is having a good time, it draws people to them.

[Biggin'89]

(not if shes a fat ass tho)

LMAO!!!

and well said.

[95z28man]

lol that could be a little intimidating..and also the girls there may think you dont wanna be bothered while you are working out, so that could also be why they dont say anything...and you know alot of girls want the guy to say something first, so you may have girls interested to talk to you buy maybe they are waiting for you to make the 1st move.

Dont you have girls that are interested in your Camaro ? A bad ass silver Camaro with a 383 is just awesome...im sure it draws attention...and a good conversation starter.... alot of the girls I know seem to be more interested in ''nice'' cars like BMWS, ETC. and really dont care about a fast car...or whats done to it...if you can find a girl thats interested in cars, than you will have something in common and she will want to go to events and suff with you. I know most of the girls I know really are not into my Camaro, and they really dont get why I am so into it and why I have all these plans for it...well they are not Camaro Girls like me lol soo find a Camaro Girl or Trans Am girl or even a Mustang Girl. Maybe go to car shows, the track, or events and just strike up conversation with a girl. (not if shes a fat ass tho)




okay that is a problem!! I dont know how you act in person, but you know when you see someone that lacks self esteem, you can just tell by the way they act and the way they carry themselves... and alot of times thats not a trait that draws people to you.. you need to think more postive.. walk around smiling, girls love a happy smiling guy. think about the things you like about yourself.. dont focus on the negative stuff. I have had self esteem issues , and sometimes I still do.. So I know that feeling, and it doesnt feel good, but I dont act like it in front of people anymore. (at least 95% of the time) Most people that know me, have no clue about it because I am always so happy and fun.
People like to see the confident person who is having a good time, it draws people to them.

Unfortunately I don't know of any girls around here that are into cars and all that stuff. I definately turn everyones heads when I drive anywhere though. The only people that say stuff are younger kids and older guys that are into muscle cars though lol.

I guess my real problem would just be that I'm pretty shy, and so I don't really initiate conversation with too many people unless I know them well. I rely on people coming up to me. I don't mind talking to someone if they really want to, but they have to approach me lol. Another reason I need to get more sleep is so I can avoid being tired all day which really makes me not want to talk anyone.

The funny thing is, I usually don't like to draw attention to myself, but almost everything I do, is the opposite... I drive a LOUD car, I bodybuild, so everywhere I go, seems like people are looking at me just cuz I'm visibly different than most people lol. But I like being different, so thats good I guess.