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ZGOBYBY
05-04-2012, 10:12 AM
Well, good people always try to help a buddy out. And I think I am too good to my friends sometimes. But let me explain the situation. My buddy and I used to be very close, he was pretty much like my little brother. In fact, people saw us around so often that they thought he was my bro. He lived with me for awhile, and due to differences in living (cleanliness, organization, etc.) I asked him to move out. Of course, being younger and not understanding that I have not lived with anyone since I have been on my own since 18, he was angry. Having a roommate isn't for everyone, but he eventually learned and our friendship rekindled.

Ever since our friendship restarted again, he has changed pretty drastically. He always loved LTx cars, or so I thought. One day he would say, "oh, an LT1 Trans Am is my dream car. No, I want a Ford Probe. Maybe a Fiero with a GTP motor in it would be cool. Oh, how about a GTP." Needless to say, there is no car loyalty there. Okay, fine...

So two months ago, he bought a '94 Red Formula Auto. The car itself was in good condition, the motor ran smooth. The rack and pinion leaked a lot, and there was some "questionable" wiring running across the top of the intake manifold, but all in all, a good car. I told him, being the good buddy I am, that if he ever needed help or parts, to let me know. So... the ranting and raving begins, as usual with this individual. I get texts saying "oh, how much for a turbo 350 trans?" or "how did your trans shift in your Z?" or "my MPG is terrible." It became a ridiculous on-slaught of text messages about MPG, the car's shifting, blah blah blah. I began to just ignore them. If you haven't established by now, this person's brain is all over the place constantly.

Finally, three weeks ago I got a concerned phone call from this individual asking me to "hook a brother up." Being the kind person I am, I figured I would help out. He stated that his trans blew in the Formula, and he really needed my help. He asked if he could buy my 4L60E out of my Z. NOW... I do not have another trans for this car. But I figured to help him out, I would sell it to him so he had transportation. He stated he was SOL without a car and was broke. So I sold it to him for $150.00, and he told me he would have the money for me in a week after picking it up. That weekend, he showed up 4 hours late to pick it up. Needless to say, I didn't want to see his face (hell, he didn't even have money for me at this point), so Brett went outside to help him load up the trans. A week and a half later, this individuals DIRECTS ME TO COME AND GET MY MONEY from him 45 minutes away. Bullshit.

NOW, A WEEK LATER... he sells the Formula. It wasn't fast enough for him. He basically used me to get the car back on the road, then WHAMMY. SUCH BULLSHIT. And to top it off, I got out in the garage Sunday, and there is a 2 1/2 foot gouge across my GTO driver's door from the bell-housing being dragged across my car.

BLK95-Z
05-04-2012, 11:52 AM
Yeah Id be pissed, you pretty much gave him a good transmission in good faith to help a friend out and he sells it? Wow. Live and learn I guess....
Im kind of an asshole so I would demand more money for the transmission. Explain to him you cant find a core for what he got it for.....if he was a firend he would have already offered IMO.

95ImpySS
05-04-2012, 12:59 PM
I'd be pissed as well. Personally I would cut contact with him after you get your $150. Not worth the time, money effort, energy or emotion. Too many good people that get taken for a ride trying to be the good person. Tell him you want the $150 NOW as in tonight to repair the gouge he put in your GTO.

Then do burn outs on his lawn.

ZGOBYBY
05-04-2012, 01:58 PM
I ended up driving out and getting my money from him. He even promised me a gas card for having to drive out a get my own money, but I never saw that either.

Fastbird
05-04-2012, 02:55 PM
I'm pissed for you, so you should be pissed too. That entire situation is bs.

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dkd1990
05-04-2012, 04:44 PM
It's things like this that make it hard for me to trust people. I would definitely cut him off from any kind of help in the future. It just sucks that you had to go through this.

Chris
05-04-2012, 06:11 PM
I would normally say kcco but, he should be paying for a respray on the door. Thats got to be at least 500-600 at a good shop. Bullshit

CALL911
05-05-2012, 07:46 AM
Jen,

I think you need to reconsider what "friends" are. He is not a friend if he does this to you. And you should not have bent over backwards like that or allowed yourself to be the victim here. You are a very good/generous person. But you should not allow yourself to be in a position like this to get taken advantage of.

There are times, as hard as they seem at the moment, where severing ties with people that "used" to be friends is necissary. You are an exceptional enough person, you will find and have other people that truly be good friends to you.

Project96
05-05-2012, 12:08 PM
You have every right to be upset. I hate roommates. I have only ever had 1 & will NEVER go that route again. Needless to say we don't talk anymore either.