Anger... how does everyone else deal with it? [Archive]

slowdime

11-10-2008, 02:04 AM

Found out my ex is a lying whore tonight and went apeshit for a little bit.
Usually I punch shit or people, but my knuckles are messed up from the other night and I cant afford to patch the walls in my dorm every week.

Instead of killing my hand again I went out and punished the Z for my anger. Slid it sideways every corner I took and did a couple of 130mph blasts down the highway to calm my nerves. All I can say is I wish it was a m6 because it wouldve been even better.

How do you guys deal with shit like that?

Adam

11-10-2008, 02:07 AM

I would drop her faster than you can blink and never think about it again, but I guess that makes me cold.

slowdime

11-10-2008, 02:19 AM

I would drop her faster than you can blink and never think about it again, but I guess that makes me cold.

Thats how I used to be, and will be from now on. There was just something about this one... I cut off all contact with her tonight, and plan to say FUCK IT from here on out. She doesn't even know I'll be going back home for xmas and it'll stay that way.

Adam

11-10-2008, 02:30 AM

Ya the less you appear to give a shit about her, the better imo.

Cyanydem28

11-10-2008, 03:01 AM

slowdime

11-10-2008, 03:13 AM

Since u claim shes a "whore", i assume there are guys involved with her? If so, i would just go handle the dudes that she messed with. Too bad you dont live around me, i would get your back and help you out a little dime haha.. but thats how i've handled those kind of situations before... Sorry to hear about that bro..

Sounds great but I'm 1200 mi away right now at school, you know so WE could have a better life but fuck that. I wouldve busted her new boyfriends kneecaps before I left, but like a true downfall for her his ass was in jail. Before I left I was told she still cared about me but didnt want to be together while i was gone cause shit might happen and that we'd talk all the time, sounds great right big hock of shit. Havent heard from her in like 2 weeks now look on myspace and theres all these pics of her with other dudes. So I call her and say thanks for being a lying whore and hung up.

Done with it at this point. But if I ever happen to see her with some other guy I wouldn't hessitate to break his face.

chevy42083

11-10-2008, 03:14 AM

Sucks, and yes, I usually go for a drive.... but learned driving "that way" isn't very good.... so I'd just cruise out west on I-10 (away from town) till I felt like returning. Occasionally, I was pleasantly reminded there is a drag strip, and that would stop me 40miles out (or on the return trip).

Cyanydem28

11-10-2008, 04:11 AM

Sounds great but I'm 1200 mi away right now at school, you know so WE could have a better life but fuck that. I wouldve busted her new boyfriends kneecaps before I left, but like a true downfall for her his ass was in jail. Before I left I was told she still cared about me but didnt want to be together while i was gone cause shit might happen and that we'd talk all the time, sounds great right big hock of shit. Havent heard from her in like 2 weeks now look on myspace and theres all these pics of her with other dudes. So I call her and say thanks for being a lying whore and hung up.

Done with it at this point. But if I ever happen to see her with some other guy I wouldn't hessitate to break his face.

Bro, you cant do that... You cant act like u care cuz that will just make her feel better about herself. If you act like you dont care, then it will kill her inside and most likely have her comming back to u in a month or two.. Thats what ive learned, plus, while ur "not caring" about her, haha, you can just go and get with other girls. That will deff take your mind off her dumbass..

slowdime

11-10-2008, 04:32 AM

Bro, you cant do that... You cant act like u care cuz that will just make her feel better about herself. If you act like you dont care, then it will kill her inside and most likely have her comming back to u in a month or two.. Thats what ive learned, plus, while ur "not caring" about her, haha, you can just go and get with other girls. That will deff take your mind off her dumbass..

:laugh: Back home that was easy, I was hittin the neighbor chick before I left, there doesnt seem to be a stitch of decent vag up here though. The college town next to me has a 4:1 girl to guy ratio but I've also heard theyre chock full of STD's up there:puke:.

96lt1m6

11-10-2008, 04:39 AM

once you realize a female is gonna do whatever she wants to do you will be fine!:secret:
don't let it get to you like that.......:shame:
there are waaayyy tooo many others out there!:hail:

Fastbird

11-10-2008, 09:17 AM

:laugh: Back home that was easy, I was hittin the neighbor chick before I left, there doesnt seem to be a stitch of decent vag up here though. The college town next to me has a 4:1 girl to guy ratio but I've also heard theyre chock full of STD's up there:puke:.

Wait....correct me if I'm wrong here. You're all bent out of shape over this girl who's got pics on myspace with other guys, and yet though you were dating her prior to leaving you were banging another chick? A bit hypocritical here don't ya think?

As far as the anger thing......everyone deals with it in some form. You can not bottle it in though, it will only lead to an explosion. You have to find your own healthy outlet.

chevy42083

11-10-2008, 09:39 AM

...Before I left I was told she still cared about me but didnt want to be together while i was gone cause shit might happen and that we'd talk all the time,...

Doesn't sound like you were even in a relationship with her. At best, a "we'll get back together later"... which you know is always conditional.

I dated a girl who went away on an internship across the US... we called it off so there wouldn't be any hurt/jealous feelings. In the end... yes, I got jealous (at nothing), but since she said before hand that she didn't want to be together I had to deal with it. I didn't get all angry though... I had been told we weren't going to be "together". In the end, I realized I liked her, but not enough to get back together <nothing to do with other guys>. It was an easy way to reasses the relationship.

If I'm right... quit being butt hurt... you weren't dating her, and if the pics are on MySpace... they can't be THAT bad :D

Oh yeah.... and what fastbird said. "Do unto others..."

bidicamaro

11-10-2008, 09:49 AM

Wait....correct me if I'm wrong here. You're all bent out of shape over this girl who's got pics on myspace with other guys, and yet though you were dating her prior to leaving you were banging another chick? A bit hypocritical here don't ya think?

I thought I seen that and agree with ya fastbird. Also, if she IS with another dude, why get angry at him? He may or may not know that you were/are/want to be with this girl and if he does know, he just did you a favor to GTFO of a "relationship" with a girl who doesn't matter. Eventually it'll happen to her too. What goes around comes around... been there, done that but the bastards never gave me my damn t-shirt!:frustrated:

oh yeah, almost forgot... I usually go for a "quick" drive down to the beach and back and see if I can piss off a mustang or two :D

Camaro_94

11-10-2008, 11:15 AM

I usually just go for a ride (but dont beat the shit out of my car since that would be stupid, and getting in an accident/getting a ticket would only make things worse). Lake Ontairo is about 5 miles from me, so I usually just take a ride up there, cruise the coast line, or walk on the pier. Usually works for me.

- Mike

paul95z

11-10-2008, 02:11 PM

I think we all need a hobby that gets aggression out. Ever since I started MMA training, it seems I dont get angry near as easy as I used to. Dont take it out on the car, like others said it could just make thing worse if you wreck it or tear it up.

KissMyWhtSS

11-10-2008, 02:26 PM

I'd learn how to control your anger.

I've done everything, from beating on my car a bit, taking it out on friends (coming off as hostile to them), playing video games, drinking, going on a run, etc.

Needless to say, some of those are better than others.

95z28man

11-10-2008, 04:40 PM

I typically turn green, quadruple my size, then destroy things.

bricez28

11-10-2008, 06:05 PM

smash faces, anger i have too much built up its gunna explode one day.

the day i was the most mad was the time i topped the speedo out. not smart. go for a long nice drive, with her body in the trunk:)

bricez28

11-10-2008, 06:06 PM

oh and anything involving myspace shouldnt be an issue.

97Z28

11-10-2008, 06:15 PM

I typically turn green, quadruple my size, then destroy things.
:jest:

Just chill out and think about how insignificant this situation is on a larger scale. Do anything you can to get your mind off of the subject, and if you have to deal with it, come back to it later when you've cleared your mind.

YZF

11-10-2008, 06:27 PM

I sure as hell wouldnt take the Camaro out of I were on a driving rage. Too many possibilies to break shit, then that would double the anger factor. So I'd roll the Honda because 1) its slow, 2) parts are cheaper 3) I can floor board it without speeding while referring to step 1.

Toronto_LT1

11-10-2008, 06:47 PM

she's not worth it...forget about her and move on with your life.

lethal93ta

11-10-2008, 07:20 PM

I normally go to the range and blast off a couple hundred rounds, I guess being pissed and having guns isnt a good idea but it makes me feel so much better unloading some rounds.
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Cyanydem28

11-10-2008, 07:21 PM

Camaro_94

11-10-2008, 08:07 PM

I typically turn green, quadruple my size, then destroy things.

hahaha! :D

- Mike

95z28man

11-10-2008, 08:18 PM

Glad some of you found some humor in my previous post lol.

But seriously, I usually take it out in the gym or go for a drive where theres not many other cars or distractions. If I already worked out, or don't want to waste gas, I'll most likely sit around sulking and feeling depressed until my next oppurtunity to release comes. But don't do anything damaging or harmful over something like this.

FORMULA94

11-10-2008, 09:08 PM

me, ive done many things, burned tires, went out and mudded. usually i take my weakest car out and cruize now. but waht always works is get a good friend and go get something to eat and just let out the shit, then go and shoot off some fireworks or soemthing safely.

97lt1camaro

11-10-2008, 09:11 PM

http://photos-e.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v351/143/103/507758866/n507758866_907012_4242.jpg

This is usually the result of my built up anger. I generally go for a drive and beat the snot out of it for a bit.

Even if i dont beat on it, just going for a nice easy cruise calms me down alot.

bricez28

11-11-2008, 07:45 AM

i hit 88mph, and go back and try and fix things.

TCGiRL220

11-11-2008, 12:02 PM

I just don't date :D atleast not anytime soon anyways... there's other important things in life than to deal with a significant other... friends are cool but boyfriends (in your case girlfriends) are too demanding... but you've already dated, and have gotten p/o'ed so only thing I do when I get angry is run... no one can touch you and no one can stop you... its your choice how fast you want to run or when you want to stop... only way I can explain it is running makes you feel free... kind of like drag racing :D

Cyanydem28

11-11-2008, 02:27 PM

there's other important things in life than to deal with a significant other...

Ya, but a guys gotta GET SUM, only guys would understand....

Fixxer99TA

11-11-2008, 06:33 PM

I just don't date :D atleast not anytime soon anyways... there's other important things in life than to deal with a significant other... friends are cool but boyfriends (in your case girlfriends) are too demanding...

Hey now, some of us arent demanding. I know what you mean though.

Its your job to find the lax guys, the ones who arent jealous of everything all the time (or just everything you do).... Id say I try to be close to that, I dont let stupid relationship things bother me. I dont fight anymore, I just let things go even if I know I am right.

Your right though, if you find yourself tired of dealing then you might want to find someone else....

MeanGreen94Z

11-11-2008, 07:12 PM

http://ltxtech.com/forums/showthread.php?t=1839&page=2 use this as a punchnig bag...everyone else has :D

1hottcamaro

11-12-2008, 07:27 AM

waht always works is get a good friend and go get something to eat and just let out the shit, then go and shoot off some fireworks or soemthing safely.

I love that suggestion. It is so nice to just eat and talk to a good friend and just let it all out. After you sit and talk with someone , usually you feel better.

Dont do anything stupid over this girl, she is not worth it...make her think you dont give a damn about her.. dont give her the satisfaction of you getting all mad and doing something stupid.