When to give up

[mmd8x28]

I'm apparently bad at giving up on women. One I've been trying to hit on for 2 years, I've finally given up, she just never got the hints, and flat out told me she wasn't interested. Bought time, cause I told her flat out 1 year ago..

Another ended up being a little too crazy for my tastes, (this is one girl who drives a similar car as mine but with a built LT1), not only did she have a habit of pulling my PCM fuse just for kicks, she just seemed a little too unstable, having "days" where she just hates everyone including me. I'm still though "trying".

Then theres my mechanic, who's also female (grand daughter of my normal mechanic before he retired). I've tried for her, and she just kept pushing away too. I'm still trying to get her too.

So, when exactly am I supposed to give up? I hate giving up cause then I see it as being weak.

[GreenZ96]

3 strikes

[CamaroGirl]

^ what jj said, but you will find when you give up is when they come

[Chris]

I'm apparently bad at giving up on women. One I've been trying to hit on for 2 years, I've finally given up, she just never got the hints, and flat out told me she wasn't interested. Bought time, cause I told her flat out 1 year ago..

Shoulda gave up when you told her flat out

Another ended up being a little too crazy for my tastes, (this is one girl who drives a similar car as mine but with a built LT1), not only did she have a habit of pulling my PCM fuse just for kicks, she just seemed a little too unstable, having "days" where she just hates everyone including me. I'm still though "trying".

Been through the crazy one for two weeks. Great in bed but nuts otherwise. My ex asked me a question on fb and she started flipping out saying your never getting him back etc etc. Which lead me to try to get back with said ex who ended up also being out of her mind

Then theres my mechanic, who's also female (grand daughter of my normal mechanic before he retired). I've tried for her, and she just kept pushing away too. I'm still trying to get her too.

Do not date a girl who knows more about cars than you do , Youll feel less of a man when she can break that bolt loose and you cant

So, when exactly am I supposed to give up? I hate giving up cause then I see it as being weak.


If you aint hitting that within 3 weeks of talking game over your freinds. IMHO

[mmd8x28]

^ what jj said, but you will find when you give up is when they come
Really? Never had that happen.

Only one of them did i ever get to be with, but not date (the unstable one). I just don't want to be only a beneficial friend though, would like to date her. But she stopped doing that anyway..

[njrextreme]

You should not have to keep trying for a girl. If shes not showing signs that shes interested, dont waste your time. Ive found that if your want lets say the girl at work, let the other hounds make a fool and yourself act like your really not interested in her. She may be like why dont he like me? And then your in. :secret:

on the down side to that, if you wait, your work buddy may be hitting it and rubbing it in-lmao

[mmd8x28]

Heh, when I was working, only time I let a work buddy at a girl, was when she was a cougar, and trying to get me.. Eh, sorry, I wasn't interested.

[njrextreme]

Hit it and forget it. Gota do what you gota do now and then when single. You should of gave her the :monkey:

[mmd8x28]

Lol well that was over a year ago now, I've been laid off since then.. Single and unemployed, not a good mix..

[njrextreme]

Sorry to hear. Its tough out there these days. Are you in any groups? Start networking everywhere you can. Maybe meet a girl, maybe find a job. Church, volunteering for your comunity ect. ect.. Let all the Mom's and Grandma's hook you up. Hope things start to look up, Take care
njrextreme

[Chris]

Either she wont sleep with you and there is really no need to ever call her again.



Or she will sleep with you :D



























And there is really no need to ever call her again.

[mmd8x28]

lol, well one does want to sleep with me (ms. unstable) but she doesn't actually care about me.. i want a relationship..

[Dmaleck]

Maybe give up on the girls you want now, but Never give up on girls in general! If they're not interested in you move on! You will find a women one of these days and forget all about all the worrying you're doing!

[mmd8x28]

I'd never give up on the girls ;) .. I like girls. lol

[Dmaleck]

Well thats a + in the right direction! Just keep moving on, you will be fine!

[mmd8x28]

Lol, I was almost taken to a dive the other night. That was one "NO" I did have to say too. No way, probably full of diseases even protection can't hold back, lol

[njrextreme]

Buy a bird, the chics luv em-:cool:

[mmd8x28]

hey, remember I said laid off, can't afford it. ;) I had to pass on a trip to a friends house cause I couldn't afford to put gas in the tank. Insurance and bills came first.

(trip I got back from I wasn't driving).

[Noah's95z28]

Be an ass to em..it works trust me.

[mmd8x28]

Be an ass to em..it works trust me.

Eh, I guess I could try that to my mechanic chick. I have no need to bring my car in recently for her to get revenge on me if it backfires. :laugh:

[Chris]

Do what I did to my current g/f , Call her up and say Im taking you out for dinner and a movie On XXXXX date what do you want to see.

You need a wingman, Shit a buddy and I were at bestbuy the other day and I asked for helping looking for a cd and the girl helping us , turned into a conversation between the three of us and I said what are you doing tomorrow to my buddy. He says nuttin, I said I was going out he should come n bring her, ( Bestbuy Girl ) and she gave him her number. :secret:

[warnerTA]

^^ lol chris WIN!

girls want what they cant have, my new way of looking at it.

[bluebird94]

^^ lol chris WIN!

girls want what they cant have, my new way of looking at it.

isnt that the same for boys?

[Chris]

isnt that the same for boys?


She does have a point Its a Win Win, :devil:

[mmd8x28]

Lol.. Well I'm gonna bring my car into the mechanic later for a brake fluid leak (which i do have) and gonna try again, one last time, then say whatever, can't have me, lol.

[Dmaleck]

Update us on this! Pics would be cool to.

[mmd8x28]

I haven't left yet (I want to make sure she's in the shop and not someone else). I can never get pics of the girls I know, they are never like other girls. These ones hate their pic getting taken, and this one actually broke my cell phone when I tried to snap a pic of her.. Very moody.

[Dmaleck]

LOL , she sound's aggressive! I don't want you to get killed or anything so nevermind on the pics. Also, I meant update us after you go.

[mmd8x28]

Oh. Well, she's there, I'm actually heading out in 4 minutes. Her shift ends but she said she'll take me in (no pun intended).

[mmd8x28]

What she said: "Stop askin me out!". I said "Ok, but don't you dare come crawling back when you realize you want me", haha.

[warnerTA]

lol oops. screw her. find another

[Camaro_94]

Get drunk.. Unless you're one of them angry drunks. Then I'd advise you not to drink.. Because that would just make shit worse.

Trust me. It'll work. and use as many cheesy pick-up lines as you can think of.

Here are some of my favorites...
"Is that a mirror in your pocket? Because I think I see myself inside your pants!"
"If you were a booger, I'd pick you first!"
"Are you busy tonight at 3am?
"Your daddy must have been a baker, because you sure do have a nice set of buns!"
And my all time favorite... "Hey.. Someone just farted. Lets leave and go back to my place"




WARNING: DO NOT TAKE CAMARO_94'S RELATIONSHIP ADVISE IF YOU WANT ANYTHING TO WORK!

[mmd8x28]

I'm actually a light drunk, hard to even tell I'm drunk unless you ask me, cause I'd be plainly honest. Oh, and your pickup lines are like, something that I would be wary of trying, lol. Especially the booger one.

[warnerTA]

I'm actually a light drunk, hard to even tell I'm drunk unless you ask me, cause I'd be plainly honest. Oh, and your pickup lines are like, something that I would be wary of trying, lol. Especially the booger one.

try em! dont be a bitch.....







jkin jkin lol

[Dmaleck]

Get drunk.. Unless you're one of them angry drunks. Then I'd advise you not to drink.. Because that would just make shit worse.

Trust me. It'll work. and use as many cheesy pick-up lines as you can think of.

Here are some of my favorites...
"Is that a mirror in your pocket? Because I think I see myself inside your pants!"
"If you were a booger, I'd pick you first!"
"Are you busy tonight at 3am?
"Your daddy must have been a baker, because you sure do have a nice set of buns!"
And my all time favorite... "Hey.. Someone just farted. Lets leave and go back to my place"





Don't forget.....My dick just died, can I bury it in your ass?:D pretty much has a 100% failure rate.

[KissMyWhtSS]

ehhh... I think of myself as a good catch. I give them a few opportunities but if they don't take the bait I'm not too worried about it. I don't plan on settling down till I graduate anyway.

[bluebird94]

Pick up lines never work. You either like the guy or you dont, no matter what his methods are. It should be rather obvious if she shows interest in you in which case you can inquire upon her relationship status (which is good, she can lie if she's actually not interested and no harm done) and/or ask her out. Guys who are obviously hitting on me creep me the hell out, even if they're attractive I'd turn them down.

[Dmaleck]

Pick up lines never work. You either like the guy or you dont, no matter what his methods are. It should be rather obvious if she shows interest in you in which case you can inquire upon her relationship status (which is good, she can lie if she's actually not interested and no harm done) and/or ask her out. Guys who are obviously hitting on me creep me the hell out, even if they're attractive I'd turn them down.

So you will never be interested in a guy that is hitting on you? What if the guy thinks you are an intelligent beautilful girl that he wants to get to know better? I've always been taught that if you like a girl try your best to get her :Djust don't do it in a creepy way! And yes I would think pickup lines would be creepy if I were a female.

[Camaro_94]

Don't forget.....My dick just died, can I bury it in your ass?:D pretty much has a 100% failure rate.

OMG!! WIN!!! :laugh:

[mmd8x28]

I don't use pickup lines.

But I am of the opinion that women want to see how hard we will try to get them, if we are truly interested.

[CamaroGirl]

So you will never be interested in a guy that is hitting on you? What if the guy thinks you are an intelligent beautilful girl that he wants to get to know better? I've always been taught that if you like a girl try your best to get her :Djust don't do it in a creepy way! And yes I would think pickup lines would be creepy if I were a female.
pickup lines make me lol, should hear some thing customers say to me at work. i'm not talking young, hot mechanics. i'm talking old dudes.

[Chris]

Brandon This is what you are going to do.


Pick up your cell phone.





Type in the txt message.




So When Ya Going to let me tap that.







Forward to every Non related Female in your phone.




And see what options are open to you.




LtxTech Helping you get laid since 2008!

[BluBeaSSt]

I usually talk to them for awhile, maybe flirt suddly...if there to dingy to get the point then off to the next.

[BLK95-Z]

Youll hardly ever meet a girl worth keeping if your looking....

Maybe you should change up your technique so you can just hit something, then maybe it wont bother you not having a gf.

Go get faded up, buy a nice shirt, and put some cologne on. Go to the club and do as many fist pumps as you can....I garentee youll find something :D

[mrbadlt1]

Get drunk.. Unless you're one of them angry drunks. Then I'd advise you not to drink.. Because that would just make shit worse.

Trust me. It'll work. and use as many cheesy pick-up lines as you can think of.

Here are some of my favorites...
"Is that a mirror in your pocket? Because I think I see myself inside your pants!"
"If you were a booger, I'd pick you first!"
"Are you busy tonight at 3am?
"Your daddy must have been a baker, because you sure do have a nice set of buns!"
And my all time favorite... "Hey.. Someone just farted. Lets leave and go back to my place"




WARNING: DO NOT TAKE CAMARO_94'S RELATIONSHIP ADVISE IF YOU WANT ANYTHING TO WORK!


Don't forget.....My dick just died, can I bury it in your ass?:D pretty much has a 100% failure rate.

i just honestly lol'ed

[KissMyWhtSS]

I'm apparently bad at giving up on women. One I've been trying to hit on for 2 years, I've finally given up, she just never got the hints, and flat out told me she wasn't interested. Bought time, cause I told her flat out 1 year ago..The answer to your question is in bold.

Why waste your time beyond that point?

The best thing to do is play the field, talk to a lot of girls, and don't worry too much about settling down with one. If you like them, talk to them more, if they start hinting that they aren't interested.. talk to the others more.